Fear and possibly a change

Teska · June 12, 2025 at 5:49 AM New

Brief update after my visit to the doctor yesterday:

HCG dropped to 3.86, so below 5 and therefore okay.

I still have fluid in my uterus, looks like an amniotic cavity on the ultrasound, but it's not.

I am supposed to take Cycloprogynova from today so that I get a bleed and in the next cycle the Dr will do a biopsy of the GBM to make sure that everything is OK there. But he has two weeks vacation at the end of July and then we are on vacation at the beginning of August. A trip to DK in September is bad because of work or it would be really stressful. We have therefore postponed the next transfer to the beginning of October. It's much more relaxed then, in terms of work, you have to go there, the money has to come from somewhere

He also really advised me to wait until at least September to give my body the chance to recover.

Nini · June 20, 2025 at 4:20 PM New

I'm also in Denmark, also because of the open donation, but at the Aagaard Clinic in Aarhus. Some donors there also have children's photos, but not all, the donors can decide for themselves. I would only recommend Aagaard to a limited extent at the moment, as the waiting times for a (new) donor were often very long for us and the communication partners have changed frequently recently. We also had a very poor blasto rate recently, 16 eggs, 7 fertilized, 2 blastos... Before that we had better odds, but as there were only 3-6 eggs at a time, there were only 1-2 blastos... That's quite frustrating and expensive if it doesn't work out...

Well, now I'm just at the beginning of the next transfer cycle to pick up one of our two 4BB blastos. I hope so much that it works out!

I've also had a biopsy for plasma cells, I'm still waiting for the results of the control biopsy... But to be honest, I don't really attach much importance to these plasma cells and don't really believe in this "symptomless endometritis". But you don't want to leave any stone unturned...

I wish you all every success, strong nerves and lots of strength on your journey!

Peanuts.78 · June 25, 2025 at 12:51 PM New

Dear Nini,

we were also (successfully) at Aagaard and I just wanted to leave you with a few "positive vibes":

1x MA and 1x no implantation each with 5AA blasto - 4BB blasto from the same donor and our little son is happily shimmying around the dining table right now😉....

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you🍀🫶

LG Peanuts.78